Friday
03Jul

June Giveaway Winner is...

HEATHER!!!

Heather lives with her fiance and her yorkie, Kobe. She is a membership manager for a university in California. In her spare time from wedding planning, she loves finding affordable and fun new wines along with new recipes to pair them with. Heather's interest in fashion has her hunting for great deals on unique pieces. In addition to reading blogs by young women, Heather has her own blog, PoshPlay.

Heather says she reads GG because:

- I grew up in San Francisco so I love reading Meghan's blog.

- Great career advice and information.

- Fun fashion news and updates.

- Realistic advice and information on being a young professional.

Congrats, Heather, and thanks for reading!  To all of our other wonderful readers, July's sweepstakes is already live.  Head on over to the Giveaways page to enter.

Friday
03Jul

Pros and Cons of Part-time

I have a part time job. I sound like I'm entering an AA meeting "Hi, I'm Heidi and I have a part-time job." But, you know it's not a bad thing.

Around October 2007 when I was still making $30,000/year and suffering financially because of it, I decided to go to my local gym to get a part time job. Adam - then boyfriend, now fiance - was a member because his office paid for 50% of his membership and while looking into memberships, I decided to ask about part time work.

A week later I was hired and worked anywhere from 1-4 days/week at nights and on the weekends for anywhere from 3-5 hour shifts. Sure $8/hour wasn't really a great pay, but for what I got in the long run, it was worth it.

Eventually, around August 2008, I took a hiatus. Wedding planning, marathon training, and working 9-6p in a job I was miserable in took it's toll on me and I quit. However, after getting laid off in March 2009, I went back. I now work about 12 hours/week there, get my free membership and so many other perks that make it worth it.

In this economy, with everyone pinching pennies, if you're feeling strapped for cash why not check out your local gym or favorite retail store for a part time gig working a couple extra days per week. My free gym membership requires me to work at least eight hours per week but really that's two days at 4 hours or so, which in the greater scheme of things isn't bad and puts some cash in my pocket, which, not going to lie...is much needed.

However, before commiting to a part-time job, think about all the pros and cons. Is it going to be too much for you to handle? Will your full time job allow you to be flexible? By that I mean, do you often put in late hours? If so you may want to consider weekends if you need a part time job. But, are you willing to commit to having something scheduled on the weekends that may interfere with you going out late on a Saturday night? How much time is it going to eat up? When I was getting home at 11:30p and had to be up by 7:30a I found it drained me way too much and I felt I wasn't getting enough for the effort I was putting out, thus me quitting first time around. The hours have always been a struggle but now, with me working in the mornings, it leaves plenty of time to do things the rest of the day.

For me, I get the best of all worlds. I've made a number of friends, which at the time, I lacked. I get inexpensive training, and massage therapy, as well as a discount on other gym services. It gets me out of the house, which as someone who's working from home is incredibly important to me. Finally, I get to stay in shape. I get to work with some of the cities best personal trainers, and use some of the best facilities in DC;  the gym I work for was voted one of the best gyms in DC for the past few years by Washington DC's City Paper.

Side note, if you're looking for a good gym in DC, I'm sure I can refer you to one.

Have you ever had a part-time job? Was it worth it?

Thursday
02Jul

We Love New York!

If you haven't noticed, we just added New York to our ever-growing list of Gals' Guide cities. Please welcome Amanda and check out the New York page--who hasn't been curious about what life is like in the city that never sleeps?

Thursday
02Jul

Quick Tip: Take a Different Route Home From Work

This is such a simple suggestion, but it makes a huge difference, especially if you’re new to the city. I’ve been here two years, and have worked at the same place for about one, and still, turning down a different street always introduces something new, be it a new store, restaurant, or just the architecture of the buildings. Especially in New York, you notice that each neighborhood and city block has its own personality and charm to it. Discover it.

Thursday
02Jul

Let go...jump...live

The last month has been a crazy one for many of the 20-Something Bloggers. A large group took a trip to Vegas early in June and we held our first 20SB meet-up here in Chicago last weekend. It was amazing coming face to face with many of the bloggers we follow online. It's easy to get wrapped up in their lives forgetting that you've never once met this person, let alone spoke to them on the phone! The relationships and connections I've developed are some that I will cherish for the rest of my life.

With that said, a fellow blogger made a great point today: don't wait for these opportunities to allow yourself to feel alive. Don't wait for a trip to Vegas or a night out with friends to put that spring in your step. We should feel this every day to some extent. The people and experiences of course make that feeling even more special, but don't get so absorbed in someone else's life that you're dependent on them for happiness. Find support within your community, but don't use it as a crutch.

You don't need a special occasion to feel alive. Take the experiences and memories and use them to make your days brighter. Cheesy, I know, but sometimes we all need the reminder. So don't wait. If you're unhappy in your relationship, living situation, job, take a step back and figure out what it is that's making you unhappy. What would make you happier? Don't wait for a better opportunity because it might not come. Let go...jump...live.

(Photo by dabawenya)